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Originally Posted by SummerTime12
I worry often that my T will tell me that he doesn稚 know how to help me any further or doesn稚 want me to be his client anymore. He consistently says that this will not happen, but I still worry. I feel like at some point if I知 not improving or I fck things up too much, he値l be forced to give up on me.
I honestly thought he壇 be done with me after that. I was surprised that he stuck around. I guess I feel like I知 now both a liability and someone that he sees as going nowhere.
Sometimes I wonder if I知 purposely trying to push him away to test if he値l for real leave (that was not the reason I did what I did though). What do you think would make your T be done with you? Do you ever think about it or talk to them about it? |
It really depends on the context yr getting therapy in. E.g. if it was the NHS therapy may be refused or terminated on the basis you were not stable enough for it or not benefiting or whatever. They have to ration care.
If it's private (with or without insurance) and long term therapy then if you've got a good one then he won't give up. And sounds like you do have a good one.
I have talked to my t and doc about it. Took some courage but I was imaging worse case scenarios anyway so.....give it a try
And I've defo tried to push them away by being horrid, not turning up , cancelling, etc. It's fairly common.