Had some advice for the same post under the depression forum but also want to mention--many men do not respond well over the long run to being chased (unless they are clearly signalling "Come on baby...", or unless it's a spontenous, "I love you" because they showed they cared/did something nice.). Also, you don't want to end up with someone who doesn't make you feel loved and attractive. Or he could be bipolar. If he causes more pain than joy--let him go.....