Mine has said, on multiple occasions, "I'm not going anywhere." He's said the only time he terminated a client was when they physically threatened him, to the point that he had to call the cops. I still worry a bit...because ex-marriage counselor also said things like "I'll never abandon you." And he didn't fully abandon me, I guess, but he did abruptly say I had to reduce contact. Which felt like abandonment. Current T knows that full history though, so I'd like to believe he wouldn't make promises he doesn't intend to keep. And he's said that he would be honest with me if my contact is even approaching an issue for him, that he'd give me plenty of notice, that we'd work something out. I'm doing my best to trust him...but as someone with anxious/preoccupied attachment (in general), it's really difficult...