I am happily married so yes. He is the one. We don’t have any issues and don’t even ever argue as we just blend smoothly. It’s just simply always great. But it did take me awhile to find the one.

I was married before and although my ex is an excellent father and we remained friends he wasn’t the one. We weren’t a good match. I wasn’t the one for him either. He also found the one now. So it does take awhile for some people to find right match. And some people find it early on.

You don’t have to be some uniquely great person to find love though. All kind of people find love. But I think I understand how you feel in a way. My daughter is a widow, she is dating now but she is convinced that she’ll never find right person to marry second time or that something bad will happen to people she meets. She started therapy to get out of negative thinking. Are you in therapy?