Hmmmm his wife doesn't want sex with him.....do you know the reason why? Obviously not you haven't talked to her. It could very possibly that she knows he has been having sex with others long before they separated & no way does she want to risk being infected by anything he might have. She may not be financially able to divorce him or she would have filed for divorce already if she was financially able.

Sounds like all you see is the tip of the ice berg & you really don't want to see what is REALLY under it all.

Yes, you are going to do it your way no matter what. We all have free will & make our iwn choices. Some choices are better than others especially when we can't see the whole picture or only one side of it.

Just beware.

BTW....no church is going to see it as ok even dating a married man let alone having sex out of marriage. So it is not something I would share no matter what church you end up going to.....so beware of that also