I meet a wide variety of people through my multiple careers as a musician, writer, and environmentalist, not to mention neighbors, people through the gym or other random things I go to, etc. I never have a problem finding people I'M interested in, it's just the other way around that is stifling to me.

I especially meet lots of diverse people through being a musician- I play a wide range of genres, and these appeal to very disparate individuals.

I'm posting on here because I'm at my wits' end, or at least was a little bit last night. It's just pretty annoying, and no one (friends/strangers/counsellors) has ever had any advice for me other than, "you just need to dye your hair blonde and act really stupid". Which is pretty much a BS answer in my opinion.