Unless there is a cheesy platitude they can serve, therapists don't know what to say in my experience. It's not like I was expecting them to offer me some great wisdom they possessed but at the same time they advertise *as if* they possess that magical wisdom. They don't. I'm sorry about your grief. If therapists are no different than most people who don't know what to say when you talk about losing someone, what the hell are they for?