After being on this site awhile now, it is pretty obvious most if not all of us in therapy have a "strong connection" to our T's...My first post was about transference and I was shocked to find out how common it really is

However I am a male and my T is female, so my situation may be different than most.

I finally came to the conclusion several months ago that I had too
"come clean" about this obsession.....so I did

I told her I was madly in love with her and wanted to make passionate love to her on the couch. I'll never forget her expression and reply....She just leaned over in her chair and looked deep into my eyes and said: "Uh-huh....tell me more"

After that I felt a huge weight lifted off my shoulder....The transference is still there, but we continue to work thru it
Since that day I have told her everything....from being molested as a child to being scared of the dark