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Originally Posted by Zararose
Well.. I'm going to feel stupid saying this. He had a 'moment' with a close friend where she untied and took off his shoes. It sounds so silly saying it out loud. I guess it's one of those things where you have to have been there.
Well... He was on the receiving end. it's not like he was taking off her shoes all seductively. It woudl have seemed rude to kick her away haha. Plus he walked straight over to me afterward as if to comfort me.
So I guess in the situation he acted appropriately?
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It seems this friend was out of line, not him. I had a friend touch my fiance's hair and run her hands through his hair once right in front of me! I confronted her about it and told her to never do anything like that again, that it was rude and disrespectful of me and out of line. We haven't spoken since then.
I think telling your boyfriend you have trust issues is perfectly reasonable and probably a good thing to do. In this instance, he behaved appropriately, so I wouldn't harp on the issue with him since he wasn't the one out of line and it happened months ago. Try to let it go, but talk to him about your issues.