21k is low income, I am surprised as I thought it changed to a higher amount. But it’s still it’s an income. So he pretty much asked his family to sponsor you?

There is something wrong with his parents. If my kid lived like this dude does and for wtavee reason I supported her , no way no how I’d allow her to bring over a man to live in my house too. No way. Why did they think it’s a good idea?

Strange. Their son can’t wotk or maintain normal sleep schedule or even maintain daily hygiene yet can have a romantic partner living with him in their home? No way. And they sponsor him to bring a woman from overseas???And they plan 300 people wedding even though you’ve been married for awhile.
Are they out of their minds?

They and their son live in la-la land. Get out as soon as you can