I’m so sorry you’re hurting. This is a painful situation given how he’s handled it. I don’t like that he said those hurtful words to you. My guess is he was trying to save you from himself.. from his depressed dying self. My ex did the same to me once in the very beginning. Then he turned out to be a vicious and mean person. You have to wonder about someone who can turn on you and be cruel like that. Something very dark is lurking inside him. As hurtful and as painful as this is, it could be a blessing. Depression talking or not, he was very cruel. You may have been spared from much more pain down the road.