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Originally Posted by Lostandconfused82
Yea he was very cruel and cold. He was a stranger to me. The old him could not stand to see me cry or be upset. That's what people keep telling me that this could be a blessing. I'm trying to believe that but it is hard. All of this so hard to comprehend. He holds everything in and wont talk about it to anyone. It hurts to think someone else can make him happy and I no longer could.
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Try not to think that way. It wasn’t you who didn’t make him happy. It’s him.. all him. NO ONE will make him happy if he’s unhappy with himself, you see? Try not to put the responsibility on yourself. If a person is unhappy with themselves it’s much harder to accept someone’s love and often times the person will push love away. Yes, I believe you’ve been spared. He was very cruel and that wasn’t right.