I think this is how friendships are now. If you have a use for me, then we are friends, if not go screw, I will find someone else to do it. I am not like this and have been longing for true friendship forever. I thought it was me. But it really isnt. The people I have been friends with over my lifetime have done the same thing in different ways. And now I am basically alone. But it is better than being used.