Wow! Close to the worst I did in that direction was have a dream where my head was in my female T's lap and she was stroking it. I told her that. It might be a little different with male clients and female therapists; I don't think female therapists are as susceptible to allowing male clients to make passionate love to them as male thereapists with female clients are to seeing how far they can get. I was in that situation once with a male therapist.

I ended up being able to talk about everything "important" to me okay, didn't talk about her very much though and those fantasies. They just kind of wandered off as I got better and the "real" transferences got worked through; those incidences where I was responding to as-if she were a specific person in my life I had difficulties with.