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AzulOscuro
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Default Nov 19, 2018 at 08:51 PM
 
Maybe I’m gonna ask something stupid but it’s something that has been spinning my mind for years.
I find very hard to cut conversations off. When someone approaches to me, I tend to give that impression of “I’m all ears”. I’m pretty shy and introvert, especially with people I don’t know. I don’t find easy to trust people I don’t know.
I sometimes find that completely strangers open to me, I guess they do the same with other people, and there they go, they talk to me about everything. About their whole life, their struggles, their happy moments, their lives and part of their relatives, neighbours’ lives.
I don’t feel very comfortable with people who are so open and talk and talk about everything with me, a completely stranger.
Here is the point when I need to go off and stop the conversation.
I always find very hard to cut the conversation off. I don’t want to seem rude or make that person feel rejected.
I know people with social skills know how to do it.
I feel bad when I do it and I think that I do it awkwardly when I dare to.
Someone feels identify with this?

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