I'm sorry you're struggling

I don't think it's fair that he brings up things in that way... but maybe he's worried about you being depressed?

I also struggle with not doing much. I'm going to school part time. So 2 classes this semester and 3 next. I always feel guilty when people ask me how many classes I'm taking, when I say I'm only taking a couple/part time they then ask me where I work, they assume if I'm going to school part time then I must have a job.... it's very upsetting. I hope you're able to work it out with your husband and explain how it makes you feel

Do you have any hobbies or anything you'd like to learn, languages, skills, info (any topics you find interesting)?

Maybe you could set up a couple times a day to sit down and devote some time to something like that. For example, I have an extremely hard time getting out of bed because my meds make me exhausted and my motivation tends to be low so what I have done is picked a few things I enjoy to work on. I like art so I'm trying to improve my art skills, which feels good/relaxing. I like learning about different things so I made an account on Khan Academy which has many different subjects you can learn from for free. Really awesome site. I'm studying Italian too on my own. There are all kinds of hobbies out there, knitting, writing, gardening, playing games etc

Since I've started making myself get up and do some stuff I enjoy, it tends to energize me and get me motivated to to do other stuff during the day like errands, cleaning and whatnot.