I felt like once I told my T about the erotic transference stuff it made everything else seem like less of a big deal. Like one I was directly able to say, "I have sexual feelings for you" (and then die under the couch) it made everything else seem a lot less of a risk. It's awesome that you took that step with your T. I'm sure you will find your honesty and openness nothing a great benefit, even if it does get really painful at times.