Hi there,

Seems like you've got some good advice. If she can't handle your downs, she may not be the best person for you. However, it sounds like she has stuck it out this far. It's hard to say what may be possible and ultimately that's up to her. But do try to value her for what she has been for you even if nothing more comes of it. Some people are just there to be support and might not be the best match romantically - but even if that turns out to be the case, you can still be grateful for her friendship. A good friend is hard to come by and it always breaks my heart when those friendships end because of a lack of romantic connection. When in doubt, just ask. Communication is the only way to really know.