Fuzzy, I think of you as "popular" on this forum (like Sisabel says, maybe you can really laugh about the thought that perhaps you fit in here better than IRL-- I think one key to being happy is self acceptance. )

I changed my username a couple of times here because of things like embarrassment. I've talked about things here that people at work have no idea about (that I attempted and my son is homeless). It feels like I am one person here, another at work, another at home, etc. The environment we are in can really effect our interactions. It is my hope that this community tries to be one of no judgement and support because many of us are here because we struggle. Thanks for being one of the many people here who is always so supportive.

People who are popular in the most positive sense of the word--put in a lot of effort reaching out, supporting others, being themselves, modeling behaviors or speaking about ideas that others gravate towards. For me, I am not always in the right frame of mind to be properly responsive, etc. I try to recognize when it is best for me not to say anything. There is a side of me that can be insensitive and some of my good friends from High School used to have a good laugh about it....