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Originally Posted by Nowinners
I can relate and am working on some of the same issues. I end up in crisis when one member of my family wants one thing while another wants something else. I end up feeling like I have to choose between two people and never handle it very well--sometimes going back and forth on what I am going to do. Being this way makes things more disorganized.
Hugs.
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It’s not good to be in a position of choosing like that. It makes the holidays uncomfortable. I just want to relax and not worry about entertaining and making everybody happy. Surely we can find a good balance?