I had a falling out with my FOO. It’s happened before last year too. My issue with them is they are callous and cruel. It was me to call them and call back in line continuing to act like nothing happened thus continuing the cycle of abuse.

I didn’t do that this time. So now there’s no more relationship at all. At least one sister is making some effort with the whole family by sending a group text regarding a recall of lettuce. I didn’t respond. My aunt said something snippy.

So it looks like I won my pride but I lost my family.

But it was a toxic relationship anyway.

I know I contributed to the toxicity.

It hurts immensely how they are so willing to never call me again and how they refused to treat me with respect.

Is there any way for me to have a healthy relationship with them?