wow. sounds like your therapist handled that really well. i've told my therapist (in a round about kind of way) about my childlike transference to him (where he is fatherly). but i certainly haven't told him (not even in a round about way) about my erotic transference to him. i'm sure i will one day... but not in the forseeable future, i don't think.

there has been quite a lot of stuff written on male transference for female therapists. surprisingly... more stuff (i think) than has been written about female transference for male therapists. similar... but different, perhaps. sometimes my erotic transference takes the form of my taking an active role... sometimes my erotic transference takes the form of my taking a passive role... i'm not sure how similar vs different it is...