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Old Nov 21, 2018, 08:28 PM
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Originally Posted by golden_eve View Post
If he did something awful, why would you consider explaining the reasons why you had to block him? Why give to him in that way? He most likely doesn't deserve a reason. You're being far too nice, imo, even though I don't know what he did exactly, but I am sure it wasn't good. I don't think it would have even been bad to ghost him either, if he did something so terrible. Do you even really want this person as a friend? Would you advise a good friend of yours to keep someone like him in her life?? If it were your own daughter, would you advise your daughter to befriend someone who was a jerk?
That's an excellent point, thank you - I haven't thought about it like that but I'll definitely start. I'm usually rational supporting others but don't always seem to be that way when it comes to my self, haha.

I've already explained to him my reasons. He knows exactly how I feel, I was very open and very blunt - I don't want him as a friend anymore , my issue is/was feeling bad about him not expressing how he felt. But the more I think about it, I shouldn't care, I suppose... maybe I am just being too nice.

Last edited by eclairparty98; Nov 21, 2018 at 08:31 PM. Reason: Elaborating
Thanks for this!
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