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Originally Posted by eclairparty98
That's an excellent point, thank you - I haven't thought about it like that but I'll definitely start. I'm usually rational supporting others but don't always seem to be that way when it comes to my self, haha.
I've already explained to him my reasons. He knows exactly how I feel, I was very open and very blunt - my issue is/was feeling bad about him not expressing how he felt. But the more I think about it, I shouldn't care, I suppose... maybe I am just being too nice.  |
Yes, you're being far too nice. When someone wrongs us, which I am assuming he did, why would he deserve an explanation for you blocking and not wanting to hear what he has to say? He is probably going to BS his way through it anyways. Why give him the chance? Why bend over backwards explaining yourself to a jerk? If he was a complete A-hole, he doesn't deserve your attention OR friendship. Move on... forget him. Find other people who are better. By not giving him the time of day, you're standing up for yourself and are showing self respect.