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Originally Posted by KD1980
I decided to follow an actress on Instagram and to my surprise, she followed me back! I found out recently she unfollowed me.
I was kind of upset because I overanalyzed it. I thought maybe it was my fault she unfollowed because maybe my page is boring? I hate getting rejected. Eventually I stopped letting it get to me, but how do I just not blame myself/overanalyze when these things happen?
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I wondered about this myself. My guess is your following her triggered her to follow you until she had the chance to look over your account to see if she really needed/wanted to follow you; once she determined she didn't, bingo you were unfollowed. It wasn't personal as much as business, is my guess.
Also, keep in mind that many celebrities, even very minor ones, have their social media 'done' by assistants. She may not have been directly involved in this incident.
Enjoy what you want from her public output and try not to worry about the rest. Working on improving your self-esteem will only help you with your hatred of rejection.
