That's great Eve. I do believe that being with someone right for us, belonging, and deep connection as well as loving and fun physical intimacy, as well as hugging, all heal us and make us happy. I also like that you said this: "I can also imagine that finding your true self again, being independent and free again to do as you please, and creating a life for yourself that is very happy, full and rich (spiritually speaking) can accomplish the exact same things as finding true love again. That's pretty much the same as falling in love with yourself and your own life." That's so true.