How could an okay appointment (productive but emotional) turn so negative by us each making a statement without thinking. When I made the comment about understanding why my parents really wanted to keep their marriage together "for the kids", I realize that was not something I should have said as I was getting ready to leave. You responding with something like "to bad they didn't have a healthy enough relationship to make that possible" felt like a knife to the chest. I know you regretted it the second it came out of your mouth. Ugh why is it so complicated???