If it were me, I wouldn't worry about it. It's not like she's going to run off with this person, and I'm sure she's aware of it too. I don't see the problem with enjoying a little "eye candy" once in a while.

I used to catch my husband drooling over Selma Hayak after we first got married. I don't look anything like her, but in the real world he chose ME - and shows me he loves me every day. I don't consider her to be a threat, so I have no problem with him enjoying her movies. Besides, I reap the benefits, lol.

I used to have a "crush" on JFK, Jr., and would often tease my husband that he's the only man I'd ever leave him for. When the plane crashed, I teased my husband that he probably had something to do with the crash. During the weeks that followed, my husband made sure to buy all the magazines with JFK. Jrs. photos included. It only made me love my husband more.