My husband has been really quiet and he looks and acts like he is either depressed or thinking about leaving me. I just started noticing this ever since i quit my job in January. I hadn't worked for 2 years and then i got a job and held it down for 5 months. When i wasn't working he worked overtime and didn't care that i was unable to work. Then when i decided to go back i told him he could take a break and just work part time and have time to himself for a while just to rest. He loved it. Then in January i quit and he had to go back full time. He tells me everyday that it is ok, but i just don't believe that is the truth. I do get disability so i am bringing some money into this relationship. And i made a promise to him that as soon as i get stable on my meds and work through some stuff i will try to go back to work. This is not the only reason I think he is depressed or going to leave me. I have put him through So much and we are so young. He is really too young to be dealing with this. I have Been in the hospital 6 times in the past 4 years. My anxiety gets so bad, then i get angry and take it out on him. He NEVER gets mad at me, never says anything i do upsets him and tells me he loves me all the time and when i apologize he tells me it is ok, he undersands. He is so supportive and helps me make doctor appointments, drives me everywhere because i don't drive and EVERY TIME i ask him what is wrong he says, " I am just tired" He has been using this excuse for a really long time now. He is not happy, goofy, or motivated the way he used to be. I fell in love with him 6 years ago because he had so many goals, and plans for the future and he was a very hard worker. Lately he doesn't want to go to work, calls in a lot, doesn't want to do much. Always tired. Im so worried all my problems have exhausted him and i am worried about him. I would rather him be happy without me than hurting by staying with me. I know he loves me. And it would hurt so bad if he did leave, but if it is for the best eventually i will pull through hopefully. Should I stop worrying so much, i'm not sure what to do!!!!