I called my sister and did talk about what happened again after my mom called.

My sister’s account is her daughter told her she and I had the argument and that she apologized, thought everything was cool, but then I got mad and told her off. She omitted to tell my sister that she had unfriended me (which was the whole reason I was hurt).

When my sister called me three days after it happened, that’s when I told her about the unfriending and that’s why I was upset. But sadly I dropped the F bomb, which exploded on ME. My sister insists I said “F you and your whole family”. After that call, all my sister felt was mad at me for saying that and stewed about how I needed to call her to apologize.

As far as learning that her daughter had hurt me deeply with the unfriending, she did nothing to discuss it with her and remedy the situation for my well being. She only cared about me calling to apologize.

My sister denied discussing it with our mother. Yet somehow Mom says that I told her, “F you, F your whole family. Don’t ever call me again!” So, obviously my sister related the story with the false quote, which got into my mother that I had actually said that to HER.

So, when I went over the events again with my sister, she said “uh huh” as I spoke, probably still feeling quite sure I was lying or incorrect about what I said and I AM NOT. She told me she apologized and that I would not accept her apology. That’s not true. If she said she was sorry at all, she may have said she was sorry the incident happened. She distinctly said she did nothing wrong and blamed everything on me. She also denied that she was she was “done with this whole F’n family” and SHE DID.

I know I am not losing my mind. I know what was and wasn’t said. Such gaslighting!

So, that must be people’s nature. She heard a slanted report from her daughter and formed a negative opinion of me. She berated me. I defended myself revealing the whole matter which is what upset me. Unfortunately for me, I was overly emotional and added the “you and your daughter can go F yourselves” (because I do have emotional issues ). Then her only thought was how rude of my sister to say F to me, she better apologize or I won’t ever speak to her again. And she didn’t call me for 6 weeks. And I didn’t call her again because I felt she didn’t care about me and didn’t want to have anything more to do with me.