I live with my son and his husband in their house. Not only because my husband is gone and I can't afford to live on my own, but because I shouldn't live on my own. I'm pretty independent but there are times when I need a caregiver, and the two of them have stepped up to help since my hubby died. I miss having my own house and car, but I can always use the family cars when I need to. I go to church by myself and take my sister out to appointments, and I handle all my own finances. But my son has medical POA and can talk to my pdoc anytime there's a concern, and I allow him to check in with me if I'm acting like I'm not taking my meds. So it's a pretty good arrangement, and I don't know where I'd be without the two of them looking after me.