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Originally Posted by unaluna
I thought you meant you had to do something about their ashes.
There are quite a few people here on PC who need support dealing with their parents. They dont know if its okay to go no-contact, for example. I feel, now that i have gotten off that awful merry-go-round, that the best thing i can do is pay it forward and help them to stop torturing themselves, as my t and other resources, such as books and PC, helped me.
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Thank you, I did go no contact for 2 years before my mom passed, after that when my dat was on hospice one of my sisters convinced me to go see him. He said he was sorry, but never said why. So when they passed I cried, only bc I know that I will never find things out about them, and me, my chances were up. Now I don't feel a thing about them, and it has been that way from the time I knew I would never get answers.
