I understand your point, and the bible does say that, I just forgot. At my age 53, you tend to seek out all answers, and at this time in my life, I am trying to find the true religion. I don't know if I will ever find it, I don't know if the one I am studying now is the one, but all I can do is try, and try to be a good person, even when other people( not anyone here) haven't been good to me. I have always tried to treat people the way I want people to treat me, and when I don't do this, I feel guilty, even if the other person/s treat me badly. I guess this has a lot to do with self esteem.