It's not my opinion, it's the truth of the matter. Argue with me if you wish, but that's not my intention at all. Love does not involve being mean to each other -- that is not love. That is something else -- it is dysfunction, and it's unhealthy.

Here's what you wrote:

"I have dished it back at him at times. I can say things that hurt him just like he hurts me. Who knows I deserve "better", or that there is "better" out there?"

You sound like you are justifying him being mean by saying you dish it out yourself and are mean back. My guess is you're just defending yourself with him whenever he has been mean towards you.

I think you're settling. Please forgive me for pointing this out, but you seem like you have very little self-esteem and self-worth. Someone with strong self-esteem, no matter what their prior experience has been, would walk away when someone is repeatedly mean to them.

I am not trying to be mean by saying that. I am just trying to get you to look at yourself and HIM and to realize that YES, in fact, you DO deserve better.

Please think more of yourself than you do... and if you've come to the point of even suspecting that he stole your wallet? What kind of relationship is that? I don't understand this at all here.

Also, I thought this was a closed topic now? You seem to want to continue a debate about him. I thought you had made up your mind?