Hi,
I dont know if your still around here. I checked out the link, and those answers you got there were very confrontative! some of them, how did you feel? did you find that confrontation helpful? I felt in a way they were really quite healthy too, I'm glad you took them well.
I'm getting help now, least, the last thing I did was helpful,.... , did you follow up on any ot these possiblilities?
riverx