So sorry to hear this DP, what an awful thing to go through and not helped by his lack of thought and care. That's no notice at all, especially in your situation. Sounds like he wants out of the profession and hasn't given much thought about how to do it in an appropriate way. I'm sure he did care about you and probably still does. Most therapists are f*ed-up just like us, that's what attracts them to the profession - if they don't get decent training and proper depth therapy themselves, plus ongoing supervision, they are never going to know their own sh--t and will be more prone to acting out. Doesn't help you though, please be kind to yourself lovely xx