I did know a good man when I met my husband and did marry a good man. Sadly, that didn’t stop me from screwing up quite a lot. He has shortcomings that drove me well...here.

. Thankfully we are still together. He says he wants to stay with me and loves me. That really IS a good man!
You will eventually find fault. Be careful.
IDK if my underlying true issue is a disorder.
This insight is my engagement gift to you both.