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Originally Posted by DP_2017
^ therapists are still people. I've always seen him as a flawed human, and he's showed many of his flaws to me.
He's been kind, funny, compassionate, caring etc... but it's all an act. That's the problem. People can be fake, lure you in, pretend to like you, pretend to care, you never know until it's too late. So avoiding getting close is the best option.
In another note, the crisis line is such garbage. They sound so rehearsed, it's annoying. I hung up. Not in the mood for more fake people
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Good points. But. . .another option is learning (better) how to distinguish when they are being fake and luring you in and when they aren't. And "not going there" when they are like that. That's been a real struggle for me. Because I have had to feel and accept the need and the longing that let me to get lured in, and then the hurt and intense pain from when those longings were disappointed or rejected in the past.