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Originally Posted by here today
Good points. But. . .another option is learning (better) how to distinguish when they are being fake and luring you in and when they aren't. And "not going there" when they are like that. That's been a real struggle for me. Because I have had to feel and accept the need and the longing that let me to get lured in, and then the hurt and intense pain from when those longings were disappointed or rejected in the past.
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Honestly you can't ever really know. People change and are good at faking. Think of marriages that go decades then enf in divorce because of stuff the other person didn't know or could not handle. Anyone is capable of hurting you. That is why dogs are better than people