No it isn't ok. I've been reading a previous thread I made. I had decided then to leave this bf. It didn't last long. I had asked if controlling meant love because I misinterpreted what my friend sent in a p.m. here. Of course controlling isn't love. It seems he still is controlling or is just fed up with our relationship. But he always wants me back again. I could be very codependent in this. I'm a mess emotionally today.