Yeah, that resonates. Not just with T but for me, with people and events and . . . in general. Sometimes I find thinking about it differently, about the impossibility of things staying the same, ala Pema Chodron, who says things like this:

“To be fully alive, fully human, and completely awake is to be continually thrown out of the nest. To live fully is to be always in no-man’s-land, to experience each moment as completely new and fresh. To live is to be willing to die over and over again. ”― Pema Chödrön, When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times