I don't even send Christmas cards anymore. I love them, but. . .it just doesn't seem real if they can't accept the real me. It wouldn't be real of them, where they are at, to accept the real me, either, apparently. Like I said, maybe someday. . . (if I and they should live so long).

Congrats to you -- and your H -- for doing well together. Celebrate what we can celebrate!! I don't usually read things in this forum and hadn't kept up with that part of the story. So I was very glad to read about it. Good news is good news is good news!! Maybe not much of it around, but sometimes. . .