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Originally Posted by toomanycats
This is very normal. I certainly feel this way too. I want to be special to my T, and I think that I am - not special in an inappropriate way, but special in that I'm not just a number & he genuinely cares and thinks about me even when we aren't together.
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Thank you toomanycats. It's nice to know that I'm not the only one to have these kind of feelings. (I feel a bit silly, sometimes...) I agree that we can want T to care in a way that makes therapy 'special' and meaningful, without crossing over into being in any way inappropriate. (As others have pointed out, if our T really did tell us we are more special than anyone else then it would be a huge red flag...)