Bizi, please be careful. Sometimes people who present this way have a lot more going on in them than even what is visibly wrong and can end up doing a lot of damage to the people around them, which is why they are often alone and isolated. I am also one of those alone and isolated people and could really use a friend to help me get out of the door. You wouldn't know right away I had bipolar and with my ex, who was also a hoarder, I didn't understand to also look at antisocial traits you might find in a person with a personality disorder. I also tend to think I am doing the world a favor by keeping to myself because of my history of mental instability. Who really wants to deal with that?