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Originally Posted by ~Christina
My husband is also good with people all around ....me, on the other hand not so much.
The “ what work do you do question “ I loathe it. I usually say I work from home, then turn it around and saying and what do you do and act like I care , usually bores me to death but I put in the effort.
Omg T ‘s. I had the same T for 7 years when we moved flying Florida I couldn’t find one , we move back here I was told he retired, I tried a new T it was useless, he offered no help and mainly talked about himself and his depression ... wtf
My old Richard actually had not retired and I’m back with him , he has saved my life many times , he’s 68 with no plans to retire so until he physically or mentally can’t manage he plans to continue.
I will quit therapy once he’s done. I refuse to even try another T. I don’t know how to do Therapy without him.
I will just have to remember everything I have learned from him
Do you think you might need to ditch this one and try someone else?
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Sometimes I find a way to talk about what I used to do without actually using the present tense. I agree that quick subject changes may be the way to go.
I hope your Richard keeps working a long long time. My psychiatrist told me he never plans to retire, either, but my hubby and I might move in a few to five years. I understand your wanting to quit when Richard stops working. I might do that eventually with a therapist, but we'll still likely need to get meds.