Wow, does he suck. I can see why he wanted to change his profession -- all that phoniness probably was wearying after a while.

He's getting out of the job, so no need to pretend compassion and kindness. Or maybe some of it was real at the time but now it's "burnout". At any rate, it's not you, no matter what mean things he said. That was about him. He's just very, very limited and can't be there for you. Really sucks, I'm sorry.