I think various aspects of the relationship can vary. I liked my T right away, and trusted him on a very rudimentary level because he carries the title of T. I also have attachment issues that make me super clingy right off the bat from day one.

I’ve been with him for about 14 months now (with a three month break in the summer while he was away) and I’ve just literally, in the last couple of weeks, come to a greater level of trust with him. I experienced a major crisis and he was the first person I turned to and he responded to me instantly. I felt like this was the moment he proved himself to me. I feel like it actually moved us forward.