Thank you for your input, I appreciate everyone taking time out of their day to chime in and offer assistance.

I do trust her 100% as I know 2 people she has dated over the years and she was 110% committed to them. It was that 8-9 month period of time (3 years ago) that she did what she did and it is just hard for me to accept. I try to remind myself that it was over 3 years ago and that people mature, grow, as they age. She's got a really good head on her shoulders and great morales currenty day, which is why I guess it makes it difficult for me to imagine what happened, happening.

One again I appreciate your input!