my parents not letting me be part of my grandmother's funeral
it was heartbreaking, because in her last few weeks- they even stopped me from contacting her

I rememeber once when I tried to contact the home, the lady tracy sayying they had instructions to hang up if I called- which was so sad and hurtful

when she died (at the age of 95), I felt very upset- not just because she'd died, but because I wasn't allowed to be a part of it- I tried to think of a way to honour her myself, but just couldn't think of anything..