I really hope you don't let him off the hook by going for silly & fun. There are only 2 times left before you might never see him again, and for closure say everything in your heart. Speak your truth even if he is being dishonest now to try and cover up his lack of boundaries with you.

One thing I notice about your T from a distance is how his music and his words don't go together. When someone is like that, we believe their actions more than their words. If he goes places with you out of the office, the music says you are special and friends, even if the words do not.

This person seems to be at can't get blood from a stone depletion emotionally right now. This must be a big failure for him, and not running away from failure takes maturity.

I know it isn't consolation, but I am sure this isn't about you even though it is crushing your trust. It SHOULD be about you, about your best interests, about patient care, your care.

I love the post Echos wrote right after this one. You can heal , and emerge radiant from this point in time, but he will never forget you or how he failed you.